Added: Christy Montez - Date: 10.10.2021 00:05 - Views: 28542 - Clicks: 4265
Ok, here it goes. Next thing you know he is calling me a year later to tell me about his love problems. Apparently he was seeing a married woman for 6 months and she returned to her abusive husband. As sick as it sounds, I listen and sympathize with him, and have slept with him, just because I can still have a part of him. I am trying to understand why he misses someone who was so self-destructing. She tried to do herself in with an OD. We were married 5 years together 10 years. My head knows that we come from two different worlds and want different things, but my heart wants him to want me.
Relationships are complicated because they are driven by very fundamental and sometimes competing emotions. From your question, it sounds like you are attracted to your ex-husband, who loves another woman, but she is still attached to her husband. Life would be so much easier for everyone involved if our feelings of desire, love and attachment were reciprocated. But more often than not, these basic emotions do not align themselves that way see differences between attraction, love and attachment. If you are still attracted to and in love with your ex-husband, but he has similar feelings for someone else, then little good will come of this situation.
And while this may sound somewhat harsh, it is meant to be helpful: To an outsider, it looks like there is more than just one self-destructive individual involved in this situation. To begin with, you cannot control who you are attracted to or who you love see interpersonal attraction. The best way to break this self-destructive pattern is to force yourself to meet new people, do new things, and get involved in new activities. Relationship work best when they are based on mutual feelings of love, respect and kindness see healthy relationships.
Investing your time and energy in someone, who loves someone else, will ultimately prevent you from receiving the love you want in return. I have my own question to ask. Past CommentsLove and the ex husband
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I got a divorce after 5 years but am still with my ex-husband. Now our relationship is better than ever.